Tuesday, May 29, 2007

Love Vs Sex

We all know this debate. Its been around for eons, and we all know the whats and whys.

Women BELIEVE sex without love is not possible, or at least not enjoyable.
Men ACT LIKE love without sex is not possible, or at least not desirable.

Women seek love. And to get to that goal may accept a little of sex.
Men seek sex, and to get to that goal may act like they are in love.

Right? Wrong!

The real answer is maybe somewhere in between.

If you are making love with someone, it must be because you at least like her.
If you are loving a person, you must feel like touching him/her physically.

I dont know whether platonic love exists. But even in situations where there is no sex, there exists physical intimacy.
Like for example the relation between a parent and his/her child. Its the most beautiful relationship in the world, you will all agree. But even that is not 'platonic'. A parent needs to cuddle, a child needs to feel touch.

So, whither platonic love?
Or, whither loveless sex?

So I say........"Carry on all ye out there madly in love, or madly making love"

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